Never again – saying no to sex with twin flames

Why not to have sex with twin flames If you’re truly twins and are truly a reflection one to the other with all the internal feelings and outward behaviors then you should not try your hand at true love, rather you are more than in true love you are sister and sister, brother and brother…

Sit strong

Where’s your ass? Where’s your real strength?  Ask yourself if you’re miserable?  I’m sitting strong with the strength outside of me that I can’t explain, it has to be HOLY SPIRIT!! I was miserable but I’m not now, I’m sitting strong. If you feel weak then pray…try it. Pray, it’s okay to beg. It’s okay…

Facing feelings sober

Facing feelings sober is sobering I’ve studied addicts all my life. Thankfully I also studied professionals, and little old-lady-like creatures who were in total control of their feelings. Even rich 89 year old Aunty Ang, with a pretend cocktail in hand, crazy as she had been, was more sober-minded than most I knew. I actually…

Fat ass can be – that be me

Yeah F being fat I love all my fluffy friends, I truly, truly do but it hurts to be fat.  It just hurts. It did for me anyway. So as a disclaimer, I apologize up front. If I’m in-your-face honest with my feelings, they are my feelings. If you don’t share my sentiment on being…

Unstoppable lyrics – Sia

All smiles, I know what it takes to fool this town I’ll do it ’til the sun goes down and all through the night time Oh yeah, oh yeah, I’ll tell you what you wanna hear Leave my sunglasses on while I shed a tear It’s never the right time, yeah, yeah I put my…

Don’t sweat the small shit

I get sick of people sometimes. My emotions, like anyone else are valuable, so I don’t sweat the small shit. I’ve always said that about me, yet somewhere a long the way, I started to be stressed over everything. I try to save my emotion these days, for the big shit! Sorry for cussing, I’m…

Sober your emotions with laughter

Finding just one reason – finding a reason to laugh Sober your emotions with laughter. For this reason, I mainly like comedy and watch a rare bizarre killer show with a lot of blood. A lot of blood doesn’t make me laugh and sure doesn’t sober my emotions. If a good and bloody flick turns…

Guzzling liquor

Guzzling liquor is not smart. First of all, alcohol is a killer of your insides. Drinking every day, often and especially drinking a lot at one time, is just plain stupid. If you’re drinking from a place of pain, its worse than drinking from a place of happiness. You will surely die. It’s a death…

“What is Love” – Poetry to sober your emotions

What is love? As a Christian we are convinced that God IS love. IS being a verb. While most cannot answer the question, “What is love”, I challenge each of you to describe it for yourself and sober your emotions. It’s my believe that love rules us and its an important place to go, if…

Sobering anger – real down and dirty anger

Ir’s no secret, with holding anger isn’t a good thing. Real down and dirty anger is a terrible thing.  It’s not what you say, it is how you say it. It is so, so important to react kindly, with genuine kindness therefore, sobering anger instead of reacting and harming your own spirit and the spirit…

I love too much

I love too much is not something most would claim Most are balanced in their love, or love less than more.  As for me, I have loved beyond what is true love. Loving too much is not love, it borders on being selfish. In my quest to sober emotions, I am learning to balance the…

Being kind is a great medicine

Being kind is required in life, if we want a return on our behavior. Be smart, be kind always. If its one of the nine virtues then it is a serious matter to consider what being kind really means. Is it kind to be hurt by someone, and allow it? Of course not. That wouldn’t…

I really have to say this before I crack

Disclaimer:  This article is anonymous and was submitted by a reader and not my own personal story.The cartoon in the header is sure enough, myself; however, it was created by self to state my own state of Nirvana. 🙂 (smiles) Keeping it real, having a good sense of humor is also another way to ‘sober your…

Celebrate Recovery

Celebrate Recovery – Clearwater / Dunedin, Florida I’m not saying that groups or gatherings like Celebrate Recovery don’t work, because they do. However, this type of online group is essential for immediate access to information, affirmations and linking yourself to others, when you can’t always get to a group.

Mending relationships

This article refers to any type of relationships i.e., friends, family and co-worker’s, any type of one on one relationships, is what I am referring to.   “I don’t know about anyone else, but mending relationships isn’t easy if one or the other doesn’t want to repair what’s broken.  It’s as simple as that. If…

Living fragile

Debbie said it today. I love talking to her because we’ve both lived through much of the same things, with the same sound minds, but living fragile.  I took notes during this convo because it was like we were in a group. We crack up laughing, just being ourselves. She’s a recovered alcoholic. She asked…

My list of affirmations

One thing I dislike about myself, is always being so easily swayed. My list of affirmations allowed me not to be wishy washy, or be distracted by other peoples idea of who I should be or how I should think when issues pop up. Life is life and we all have stress. Who are you…

Settling the past

Settling the past isn’t always easy. It’s best to be engaged in the present and your future. Only miserable people, who are addicted to their emotions, reflect on bad memories and there will be many of you who will always enjoy being drunk on emotion. If so, you will never settle the past. Trust me,…

How to quiet your mind

A quiet mind is a safe place How to quite your mind isn’t easy for some, yet there are sure-fire ways to calm or quiet your mind without addictions. My theory is we can be addicted to emotions. If that’s the case you need to learn how to sober your emotions. Depending on the individual…

I got your fix

Your fix should be a healthy determination to be solid with your list of do’s and don’ts and not changing your mind or letting anything distract you from getting that fix Let me put it to you this way, for me nothing worked until I found a healthy fix. My healthy fix was a solid…

Why doing it for yourself or anyone else does not work

You have to love yourself, or someone, to want to give them the gift of sober emotions. Typically, those with drunken emotions have not always acted in the way they really wanted. They’ve let their inner imperfection take the better of them, without realizing its our inner imperfection that is destroying us. Working on our…

Free sober emotions group – steps to success

Our free sober emotions group outline is as follows – steps to success We start with the premise that a) As imperfect human beings we are fully controlled by our emotions – Yes we should look to a higher power, but AA and other groups hinge on the fact that we can’t do it by…

How not to be toxic

This group is intended to help overcome super-charged emotions in people that really do want to change. They’re not fighters by nature, they’re peace-makers. Are you a peacemaker by nature? I haven’t always been. When my emotions are super-charged, I’m anything but peaceful. Being toxic (or poison) is the basis of all super-charged emotions. If…

Stop over-thinking by understanding your emotion

It never hit me but it did this time. When alcohol literally almost took my life, and the absolute loss of, what I thought, was an absolute friend it really got me.  I searched long and hard to understand the why’s of my drinking, the when, who’s, what’s and where’s too. Stop! Stop over-thinking it’s…

Unique, some not-so-unique stress relievers for drunken emotions

Drunken emotions are as dangerous as the alcohol or addiction itself. You just cannot get drunk on emotion. Learning how to control your emotion is a great tool on your journey to great health. Part of recovering from drunken emotions requires you find healthy ways to relax. Please!? If you’re a hermit get out. Just…

Are you a winner who is losing a battle?

It’s easy to do. We’re typically strong people, but for some reason you fight a battle, whether its surviving the loss of a loved one, an illness or addiction that you just can’t beat. That’s the problem.  Even for the strongest sure we are strong, but we don’t always “got this”, as they say. That’s…

A different kind of AA group

Not that AA isn’t wonderful. In fact, starting my own group makes me want to go to every group I can get to.  However, some of you have no way out, or are isolated to the point you feel embarrassed, or for whatever reason, this type of group will target a lot more people, those…

Asking yourself, “Who are you really?”

What I mean about “who are you really?” is who are you really?! Are you a mix of friend, family, clergy opinion, television trends or other? Or, are you able to be who you are, and not what everyone expects or wants? Of course its always good if the real you has healthy thinking and…

How long should friends stay separated

“You’ve got a friend” Depends on if you’re real friends. How close are you? When you did hang, did you hang everyday or every now and then? The closest of friends can contact daily or rarely if ever but it mainly depends on the type of friendship you have. This is what I say, “I…

Do wonderful things

I like ‘deep’. I like that my emotions are different from a lot of others. My good emotions are perceived by some to be a mix of hippy-like being conservative at times. In my element, I feel balanced with the power to sober my emotions. I can be happy and fun loving, open-minded and free…

Kick the emotional addiction then the physical

It occurred to me that there are two forms of addiction, emotional and physical. In order for the addiction never to become physical if we sober the emotions, chances are we’ll stay sober in other ways. We need to be watchful that our emotions are under control at all times. Throughout the day I take…

Being a person of value

Being a person of value means improving your outside and inside What is, being a person of value? What does it really mean? Aren’t we all valuable? Being a person of value is often associated with our weight or general appearance Over eating, especially to the point of obesity, is an emotional addiction, can be damaging…

Getting Sober – Sobering Alcoholic Emotions

Getting sober is never easy

What, you thought it was?

How to get sober is a process and a lot longer than I care to tackle in one writing, so please feel free to comment and add your own thoughts, which will give readers more information to learn from.